sex positive culture

Now – if you’re new here, welcome to Medicinal Marzipan, where no topic is off limits and where TMI is both frequent and expected. Please, keep reading. Haha. Well now that we’ve gotten THAT disclaimer out of the way, lets discuss. I am a busy girl. I am busy moving and shaking and making insane [...]

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Also known as: Learning to forgive grudges, build authentic relationships, and being a REAL bombshell. Dear Audrina, Kristin, Stephanie, and Heidi, I love you. I really do. I feel as though I’ve watched you grow up on MTV, but I can’t lie – I’m a more than a little concerned. Remember when you were all [...]

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Now, I avoided Glee for a long time. For some reason I had it stuck in my mind that it was kind of a lame show (I KNOW), and really not worth watching. I cannot believe that I ever felt this way. I started watching it and then, slowly realized that every freaking episode ended [...]

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I’m not a big fan of using quotation marks excessively, but as I’ve been thinking about this post all day, several thought have occured to me. I meant this to be a post geared towards women who fall outside of the increasingly small sociocultural window of acceptable body weight. I was thinking of girls who [...]

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Dear Marzipan, I’m about to become a 25 year old virgin who has never been in a real relationship.  And I feel like the biggest failure.  Sex isn’t something I take casually because I’m a very vulnerable person (aren’t we all at the core?). Having never been in a relationship makes me feel unlovable/ugly/dumb/fill-in-the-blank-internal insult.  [...]

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self prescribing celibacy

by Marzipan on February 3, 2010 · 4 comments

When I was fourteen I became sexually active. Then, my desire for sexual intimacy spawned out of my perpetual need for personal validation. I was fat. I was scared. And the role models that I most aspired to be were those who were charismatic and provacative, with anyone and everyone falling at their feet. I [...]

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jersey shore girls

The time has come.  There are certain moments, when, as a blogger who reads other blogs, EVERYONE weighs in on a given topic, and I come to terms with the fact that I cannot ignore the issue any more.  Current issue: Jersey Shore on MTV. Ok. I am Italian.  But I also am a girl, [...]

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photo/cupcakes by the amazing hello naomi, click for flicker page

Lately this has been happening to me with stunning regularity: an older gay person around town looks at me, kind of cocks her head to the side, and says (please note condescension), “Thats so sweet that you are in love, is this your first serious relationship with a girl?” Or something of the like. And [...]

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I’m such a lucky girl. I can’t even describe to you the awesomeness that is my daily life during Bear Week in provincetown. For one week a year, and select weekends in october and march(?), the streets are over run with the most hilarious, joyful, loving visitors, pretty much single handedly trumping all of the [...]

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More and more often lately I have been having conversations with people about their fear and lack of confidence in sexual situations. And I have found myself surprised because these woes have been coming from the least likely suspects, women who I had formerly known to be strong, independent, sexy, and smart. Then I was [...]

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