
Question: If my spouse told me he isn’t “as attracted to me since I’ve put on weight b/c he doesn’t like the body type I have” and we only have sex once a month or so (so like very little intimacy) and he shies away from physical affection and I can’t get passed this lack [...]

When I was a teenager I spend a lot of my time needing someone who would tell me to put down the carrot sticks, women’s magazines, and just love myself, exactly as I was. I was the kind of girl who hungrily consumed anything that would fall in under the category of “thinspiration.” I tried [...]

Marzipanlings, today I would like to share with you an amazing letter that I received, written by a mother to her daughter’s eating disorder. So often we become so consumed with discussing how disordered eating affects the individual, that we forget the impact that our struggles have on our loved ones and family members. I [...]

There has been a lot of chatter around here, both on MM and on Twitter, about long distance relationships – How to make them work? DO they work in the first place? Are there tricks to making them work better? What if you are just not cut out for long distance relationships; are you a [...]

Well. It has been QUITE some time since we had an ask marzipan around these parts, but let it be noted that I will basically answer ANY question that you shoot my way via email [medicinalmarzipan at gmail], twitter, or leave below in the comments. I will say this about questions – I guarantee that [...]
Happy last day of May Marzipanlings! I have decided to resurrect a long lost MM tradition, where on the last day of every month I write about all of the wonderful things I was grateful for during the month, and dig deep in the Marzipan archives for some hot posts buried down deep from last [...]

So, as a part of my little series about blogging where I wrote about being productive, the life of a social media pariah, and ask marzipan: blogging 101, I bring you this wonderful and informative interview with Mary from A Merry Life about her life as a blogger and author of a BRAND SPANKIN’ NEW [...]

Hi from New Zealand! Just found your blog today, really enjoying it! I’ve struggled with body image all my life, I’m now in my early 30s and have a baby daughter, and I’m realising I need to be very careful not to inadvertantly pass my negative vibes on to her. We naturally tell her she’d [...]
Man, oh man. I’ve been feeling like a sucky blog mommy this week. It’s hot. I’m tired. I’m too bored to do anything but watch SVU and Friday Night Lights on megavideo. I’ve been working my ass off finishing my financial aid, and if you’ve never seen the line at the Vieques post office you [...]
Dear Marzipan, I’m about to become a 25 year old virgin who has never been in a real relationship. And I feel like the biggest failure. Sex isn’t something I take casually because I’m a very vulnerable person (aren’t we all at the core?). Having never been in a relationship makes me feel unlovable/ugly/dumb/fill-in-the-blank-internal insult. [...]