relationships

What IF: I Manifested A Healthy Relationship?

September 1, 2010

Two years ago I was reckless. I was busying myself with running around and making out with everyone that I set my eyes on. I was moving too quickly, forgetting to eat, and abusing my body with lack of sleep and constant motion. I went dancing every night. I got myself to a place where [...]

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What to Do When You’re Lonely

August 26, 2010

I do my best not to spend too much time alone. I know what you’re thinking – it’s healthy to be alone sometimes. It’s good to settle into yourself without the distractions of everyday life. There are so many truths hiding in the absence of noise, whether it be the crackle of the radio, or [...]

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Should You Let Your Partner in On Your Emotional Baggage?

August 19, 2010

Yes. It’s as simple as that. But don’t you worry – I’ll elaborate, if only because I’m not really an answer-in-one-word-kind-of-girl, if you know what I mean, and since you read this blog, I’m fairly certain that you do. This question has been sort of circulating around the internet as of late, particularly in regards [...]

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What IF: I continue to show up?

August 18, 2010

A couple of days ago I got an email from a friend, asking me to further explain a notion that I had touched upon in my engagement post. In that post, I stated: And it wasn’t easy – when we met Cookie told me REPEATEDLY that she didn’t want a girlfriend and would never/could never [...]

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Thoughts On Being a “Pretty Fat Girl”

August 12, 2010

So the other day I was having a conversation with someone about their body image an feelings of self worth – feel free to imagine me doing this all day everyday, as that is basically accurate. The conversation went kind of like this: “I just feel bad about myself all the time. I am fat [...]

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